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Learn how tapping into your sense of smell can help you become grounded.
Read MoreDo you ever feel consumed by "mental clutter"; when your brain doesn't want to slow down?
When I sat down to begin this entry over a week ago, I felt overwhelmed with all sorts of mental garbage and self-defeating thoughts: where do I start? what topic would be the best? would people like it/read it/? holy sh*t my mind is exploding with ideas! what if....? what if....? what if....? The list goes on. Ah! I felt stuck.
This morning, I decided to try a different approach- an approach I know works well for me as well as one that is backed by research to reduce mind clutter and help reduce stress.
I decided to savor the moment; to become mindful of the present moment.
Mindfulness is the awareness of and observing the present moment. For many, this idea is such a foreign concept. You may be flooded with past, fearful memories; or filled with nervous anticipation of something that has yet to come. As a society, we spend so much of our time going, going, going- that we literally don't have time to just stop and breathe!
On any given day, how many of you are aware of your own breathing; the sounds around you; or how the ground feels under your feet? I'd be willing to bet that not many of you are. Grounding is a technique used to help bring oneself back to the present. Here is a simple exercise to get you started. I challenge you to try this the next time you want to tame some of the chaos in your mind.
This particular grounding exercise utilizes our 5 senses. There are several variations of this exercise- here's one to try.
Sight- Take a look around. Name five things that you see. Can you make out the details?
Hear- Name four things you can hear. Are the sounds close to you or far away; are they constant or do they come and go?
Touch- Identify three things your body feels? What does your body sense/feel (your clothing touching your body, the smooth surface of the computer keys, the warmth of the sun on your skin)?
Smell- Name two things that you smell. If you are having trouble, focus on your breathing; notice how the air feels when you breathe in and fill your lungs; what about when you exhale?
Taste- Name one thing you can taste. If this is difficult, observe how your tongue feels inside your mouth.
I really like the simplicity of this mindfulness practice and I hope you will find it helpful.
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